Who am I? Who are you?

Once again I have managed to 100% abandon this blog. The one place that used to get me through everything that I ever went through... The one place I felt comfortable venting all of my issues. Mostly because I was very sure that no one in the world would read about them, but also because on the off chance that someone did- maybe that person would understand where I am coming from.

My life is different now. I feel like a new person all together, and yet I also feel like I don't really exist at all anymore. Is that weird? Probably.

I lost my Grama. She's gone now, and she was really all I had left of the family that I was raised in. The remainder of my "family" are sincerely not making this loss any easier for me, though to be fair there is not really anything that they could do to make it any easier. They could just be a bit less... terrible. That might help. I have caught myself looking around and trying to decipher what is going on around me and it all seems like this huge blur.

Loss is not an easy thing to cope with. I thought I knew this very well. I thought that I was a pro at dealing with losing the people closest to me. My dad's been gone for a very long time now, and my grandfather followed almost 4 years to the day after that. What's so different about this time? Why does this hurt so differently? Is it because my Grama had remained a constant in my life? Is it because she is the one who picked me back up after every other bad in my life and set me back on my feet with a "I love you, and I know this is hard but we have to do this together. It's us against the world now." ? Is that the difference? I feel like it is all of the above and then some. I am floundering right now, and apparently those around me can see it on my face. My doctor was able to pick up on the cloud of depression encasing me to the point that when I walked in there for him to check out my ankle to tell me if I can go back to work yet I walked out of there with some Anti-Depression and Anti-Anxiety meds. I haven't been on these in a LOT of years.

I think maybe the way I am feeling is because I am an adult now. I can no longer cope with things by locking everything away and taking my time to just stop living in the real world until I have at least begun to process this all. I now have responsibilities that I have never had to deal with before. I now have a million things to do on a day to day basis, but I also have to be the deciding factor in real-estate decisions, and ally kinds of other mumbo jumbo. Grama left me here to deal with all of this, and I genuinely feel like she was only holding on as long as she did because she wanted me to be a bit older and more capable of taking on the world head on.

I think that I am going to be okay, but for the life of me I don't even really know which direction to start walking in. I am a bit lost right now. I will figure it all out eventually, but I'm sure that I will need a bit more help along the way.

Do you have things in your life causing you to feel like you're going to crumble? Do you have a million and one reasons why you are feeling the way that you are? Have you lost someone or many someones who were you life? It would be nice to know that I'm not alone out here. Things are intense. How do you do it?